Apologetics — How do I answer the skepticism or contempt of friends?

“Religion,” Marx famously claimed, “is the opiate of the people.” Perhaps you’ve heard friends or family respond to your faith with similar condescending remarks: “Religion is for the feeble minded,” “Religion is just a crutch,” “It’s the same as fairy tales, myths, and legends,” or “Any who believes that [expletive deleted] is an idiot!”

These sorts of remarks are disheartening, discouraging, and unkind; but they are the same sort of irrational, personal attacks that Christians have heard and stood up against down through the centuries. It is the aim of this series of posts to arm us, so that we may stand up against the attacks against the only real hope of man, faith in and obedience to Jesus Christ. 

The first thing that I want to urge readers to be in their defense of the faith is rational. As I mentioned in my last post, Christianity is not a blind faith (a belief based on nothing but feelings). Christianity is based on evidence — plenty of it. Without going into detail here, the evidence for Christianity has converted a distinguished list of skeptical and doubtful scholars and journalists (for example, CS Lewis and Lee Strobel) who started their paths to conversion by aiming to discredit the evidences of Christianity. The more they studied the materials objectively, the more their doubts diminished and vanished. 

My point here is that irrational rants, answering insult with insult, or trying to base your answer on feelings (I just know, I feel it in my heart) to an unbeliever will only be playing into the hands of the doubter. So stay calm and reason on.

One of the major reasons given for doubt that I have heard (it can be useful to ask why they don’t believe) has been anger at God. The top three reasons I’ve heard: angry that He did not answer a prayer (said no); angry that a parent or close loved one died; and angry that God has forbidden something they want to do. It often explains why there is such an emotional denial of God’s existence or of the Bible’s truthfulness. 

But anger is not a rational reason, and the antidote to this kind of unbelief is logic and fact. Find out (calmly) why they’re angry at God; reason with them how ignoring and denying reality doesn’t make reality go away; and set the stage for a reasonable discussion that gives the evidence for Christianity a fair hearing. 

When opposition to faith in Jesus crops up among friends or family, don’t back down, don’t hesitate an instant, answer with calm reason and fact. The evidence is clearly on our side, as we’ll discover in further posts. As Paul encouraged the Christians in 2Th. 2:2, when false teachers came in with false information about the second coming; let me encourage you, “that you not be quickly shaken from your composure…”

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About parklinscomb

I'm a minister for the church of Christ in Manchester NH where I've worked since the 1970's. I'm a big fan of my family, archaeology, the Bible, the Lord's church, and Gander Brook Christian Camp.
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